Now embracing "we" doesn't absolve you from the responsibility to lead.This world needs its young people to lead and to lead by example.To walk that walk, and to do that work. So confound expectations.Inspire others! Don't let anybody ever define who you are and what you can be.It's not always going to be easy. Life is not a reality show. That's reality.Look: you, me -- we are New Jersey.Here it's all about "we": in fact, in this state we can't even pump gas by ourselves.And here in this state, we've got the parkway, we've got the turnpike.What we have here is a lot of mile markers.Here, people say, "What exit are you from?"Your diploma: it's a mile marker.It's a measurement of how far you can go, it's a measurement of how far you've come,but it doesn't say a thing about how far your future can take you.Your diploma is an anointment, a calling, a chargeto use the talents you've nurtured and the knowledge you've gained here to make a contribution.